We’re all a little misunderstood.
Misunderstandings happen ALL the time. We’re ALL human, but sometimes we forget we can make mistakes or fall back into our hurtful ways. And ever so often we realize what we have been doing wrong for so long and try to make up for it.
The best way to clear up your weaknesses is to TALK about them. We get so caught up in our pattern, because we are so comfortable in it, that we don’t realize that we could actually change for the BETTER.
Take me for example. I have had a hard time connecting with friends lately and I have a strange feeling that they don’t think I care about them.
Of course I care about them — I just tend to get caught up in my own life and how I am doing. Taking that 10 minutes everyday to connect with them and tell them that I care has helped me, and them, enormously!
Just taking that time to be straightforward and confessing your biggest faults leaves you and your friends feeling 100x happier. And now you don’t have to walk around with this pressure on you.
You have confessed your faults and you are one step closer to the person you want to be.
A good way to know what people’s weaknesses are is to look at zodiac signs.
Each sign has strengths and weaknesses that are true to their personality. And the signs have a little something they want to get off their chests!
It’s been a long time coming.
Read on to find out what the zodiac signs ALWAYS wanted you to know about them and find out what they’ve been doing wrong. You might find some crazy accurate truths about your friends and maybe even yourself!
Aries usually gets sh*t for being competitive and caring about being the 1st in everything. Sometimes it comes off as if she doesn’t care about her friends or family because she is impatient with people who do not match her intensity.
In reality she does enjoy competition BUT she also loves, adores, and cares deeply for her friends.
Sometimes she just needs a straightforward shout or hit on the head to get her out of her own little world.
She would absolutely love to grab a pizza, hop in some sweatpants, and binge the Bachelorette with you. Because sometimes she does slow down, I know hard to believe right?!
Taurus (April 20 – May 20)
Taurus is always the sign that other signs come to for help and advice. Well guess what?! That job is tiring and life is not ALWAYS easy for her.
It’s true, she is powerful and reliable and seems like she can take care of herself and others without even breaking a sweat.
And it’s also hard for her to tell her friends that she needs someone to lean on because she dislikes complication and insecurity of any kind.
So next time you see her give her a big ol’ bear hug because she is wayyy too stubborn to admit that she needs one.
Gemini (May 21 – June 20)
Gemini can be the life of the party BUT also has a deeper side too. The thing is, not a lot of people get to see her deeper because she is too caught up in being fun.
We love her because she is social, communicative, and extremely quick witted. She is bouncing off hilarious one liners with the group but never seems to really get deep and open up to people.
She wants you to know that she DOES have a deep side, can be serious, and can be thoughtful.
So when you thought she was joking around all the time, she has been reading you and sees that you want to slow down and have a nice chat.
Cancer (June 21 – July 22)
Some people get the wrong idea about a Cancer. Yes, she is emotional and gets attached easily to the people she loves. BUT don’t mistake her for a push over.
If you treat her right, she will always be there for you. But if you treat her wrong, that’s another story.
She will kick you out of her life, but she will always be there in the time of great trial.
When ex friends are in great need she will stick around to make sure they get backup on their feet. But the only people she keeps in her life for the long haul are true friends.
Leo (July 23 – August 22)
Many people have regrets, but not a Leo! No, she uses her confidence to make the best out of any situation handed to her.
And even when things get tough, she uses her mind to solve hard problems. SO, in the end she never regrets anything because she works to make the best of things.
She also has a great sense of optimism and expects to have a good time in every situation, and in life! And when she goes into situations thinking the BEST, the best scenario usually happens.
Virgo (August 23 – September 22)
Virgo can get caught up in the smallest details and has hard time thinking about the big picture. She is obsessed with the little things like work and bills but sometimes can’t enjoy life and love.
Life is about the people we love and the experiences we have with them, and she KNOWS that. But sometimes she can get stuck in her head about minor details that don’t actually contribute to her her happiness.
She wants you to know that she can love you more, and she is gonna work on it. After all, she is a HARD worker, the best honestly.
Libra (September 23 – October 22)
Wow, Libra is one of the MOST forgiving signs. But she wants you to know that loving can hurt her.
She is forgiving because she is fair and gives the LEAST deserving people the benefit of the doubt. So her love for you keeps coming back because she keeps giving you chances.
BUT it’s hurting her because she knows she should leave the relationship or friendship when she just can’t stop coming back to give more chances.
She also doesn’t like being lonely, so she will let you back into her life when she needs someone to hold.
Scorpio (October 23 – November 21)
A Scorpio is fierce and confident. She kinda seems like she doesn’t anyone but herself because she keeps a calm and cool behavior and is a fantastic leader.
Yeah, maybe she doesn’t NEED any help, but she sure does want some. With her passion and assertiveness she portrays a sense of independence but she really HATES being alone.
She is a really good and genuine friend, so anyone would proud to have her as a bestie. You just have to see through her strong wall, to see that she needs a squad.
I mean, who doesn’t?!
Sagittarius (November 22 – December 21)
Sagittarius is ALWAYS go, go, go and sometimes leaves people behind in the dust. She is energetic and enthusiastic, so when an opportunity arises she jumps on it without thinking about the repercussions.
And while she is following her dreams and reaching her goals, those that have invested in her are left behind. That’s why she wants you to know that she is sorry for everything she has ever done to you.
She may have gone MIA in the toughest times because of her impatience and high energy, but she wants you to know she is sorry for every time she did you wrong and left you behind.
Capricorn (December 22 – January 19)
Capricorn may be the queen of practicality, BUT she does fall hard and will become heartbroken.
Yes, we all know she is responsible, disciplined, and probably the MOST mature sign but she want you to know that her heart can be forever broken. It’s true, the master of control can also be the most dramatic when it comes to heartbreak.
She still keeps her poise but if her ex rips her heart out, you will most definitely see her unforgiving side that hurts like a b*tch!
Aquarius (January 20 – February 18)
Aquarius LOVES to be alone, which is not a common trait among the signs. Her independence can come across as though she doesn’t care or is completely unaware of anyone but herself. When in reality, she is not as stupid and frivolous as it seems.
She likes to solve her toughest problems alone because she trusts her own mind to do the hard work. And just because she is quiet at times doesn’t mean she is stupid.
She is actually one of the most intellectual signs and she will kick your ass at trivia night.
Pisces (February 19 – March 20)
Pisces is one of the kindest signs in the zodiac. She is known for her friendliness and selflessness but is also fearful and overly trusting.
It may appear that she has no backbone, but she is STRONGER than you think.
Her compassion for others goes beyond just feeling bad for her friends. She is ALWAYS actively ready to help any friend in a time of need.
And taking on the struggles of others makes her backbone the strongest of all.